Most people I've observed accept life with all of its challenges without resistance. Without a struggle for their morals, their pleasure, or their principles. The majority of those I encounter have given up and silently accepted their sad lives. They don't consider how to solve their problems since they believe they have solved them or are incapable of finding a solution for their troubles. Though not physically, I sometimes get the impression that they lack the motivation to confront their issues or the person who is the root of their suffering.
Everything, in my opinion, has a cause and an effect. A reaction to the activity. First and first, I must modify myself because my part is the source of a reaction or some action is the source of my reaction. So I need to adjust my actions and reactions while waiting for the other person to change. So, if you want to live a happy life, you must make a change. Take some chances, take some risks for your happiness to triumph. You must go through some suffering to acquire some benefits and, more importantly, to find a solution to your difficulties.
It is unlikely that you will win on your first try. Yes, with some trial and error, you will undoubtedly achieve some positive effects in your life. You will undoubtedly get what you desire, and your struggle will come to an end.