Anita
discovered something new about herself today: contrary to what she had believed
her entire life, she is an introvert.
Anita is a chatty person who enjoys mingling and making new
friends. She is cheerful, gregarious, and eager to express her opinions. She is
constantly talking, saying "hi" here and "hello" there.
Anita would define herself in these same terms. What specifically happened
today that led her to believe that she is not an extrovert, then?
One of Anita's pals inquired about her preferred sexual
orientation. Anita was caught aback and surprised; she resisted asking any
questions about it. Her friends teased her and called her an introvert
when she declined to comment on this issue. When she was by herself, she sat
and pondered what had occurred earlier in the day. No wrong in choosing not to
speak on such a subject, she reasoned to herself, but what surprised her was
that her friends had classified her as an introvert. She was forced to
acknowledge, "Yes, I am not comfortable discussing such a topic, and there
is no harm in that." Her buddies did provide her with a chewable item. She
sat thinking about how talkative she is and how when she is not babbling to her
companions, she usually chatters.
We confide in our friends and discuss anything with them.
There aren't any hiding places, secrets, or acting. They can see our true
selves in us because they can see our true faces. Then why remained silent in
front of her pal, Anita? Let's investigate.
Anita recognises her introversion. She has come to the
realisation that she needs to be honest with her friends; if not them, then let
her feelings, thoughts, and emotions out with someone. Someone had to have good
listening skills. A patient listener won't make fun of her. Recognise her
emotions, accurately translate her phrases, and understand her partially spoken
sentences. Someone who would be kind, sympathetic, and patient with her, who
would feel what she feels without passing judgment. Encourage her to be honest.
Assure her that what she says doesn't need to be justified.
Keeping
up with the world in this day of the internet is challenging, let alone for a
friend who has empathy, time, and care to be aware of us. People in this
fast-paced environment struggle to understand themselves, which makes caring
for others difficult or impossible. I bet you will take someone for granted and
not respect their presence in your life if they are always readily available at
your disposal!
Despite
having numerous acquaintances, Anita lacks true friends with whom she
can confide. Anita never realised the value of forming enduring
relationships since she was so focused on getting popular. To possess a
lifelong companion, she can rely on during every difficult time. She thought
about this for days, wondering why she couldn't express her desire to her
friend.
She merely concluded that no one was near to her heart,
as she never made an effort to develop a personal connection with anyone
in the group. She feels her life has been a waste at the age of early thirty.
She now believes that it's never too late to start a new friendship, but the
only issue is that everyone in her group has a stronger bond with a few friends
while she flitted from one flower to another. Yes, she has a lot of wonderful
friends, but right now, every decent person she meets is too busy with their
current responsibilities to start a new relationship!
Anita
is establishing solid relationships by glancing out her window. She should look
inside herself, her home, and her family, who are familiar with her from top to
bottom. She has neglected her husband as well as her sister and cousins. She
had these relationships all along, but she never thought to cultivate a lasting
friendship with them since she always took them for granted.
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